Guest blog from Surrey business woman Zoe Brown, managing director, B Websites.
My name is Zoe Brown and I’m 36 year old. I am a mum and I’ve been a mum for ages; my eldest child is 20 years old.
That’s correct; I was a really really young mum.
Being a young mum was the driving force behind my career. With little resources as a teenager, I was faced with the big bad world. I had to support my daughter and I wanted something more than a checkout till at the local supermarket. I required flexibility and I desired stability.
Pretty much every decision I made from the age of 15 was calculated and driven by the goal of increasing my long-term career. I made it through school, sixth form and university and now run my own successful web agency with a small team of six.
I am proud of this achievement. No matter how much I hate to stereotype, I know for a fact that plenty of teenage mums have not been able to carve out their own career. While I did have the support of my family, I was never provided with any financial support and my choices were all of my own doing.
When I look back at the hardships and struggles I faced, I do see a positive side. My experiences were an excellent foundation for running my own business. I know how to look after the pennies, I understand about financial risk and return, I am super efficient and can ‘plan’ my way out (or into) any number of situations on the spot. Being a mother has provided me with skills never taught in a classroom. Multi-tasking and emergency strategy planning are daily occurrences!
My 20 year old now has four younger brothers and sisters aged six, four, one and six months. My 24 hours are squeezed to the max every single day. But I have been able to carve out a successful business around my children. I expect there have been compromises along the way but can you show me a family that is perfect?
What works for me is not going to be right for everyone, and even what is right for me changes from time to time. Flexibility and analysis are both key to my success in business and at home.